Breast Massage Techniques
Often overlooked in
the bedroom, a breast massage can really be a turn on
for both partners. Women love the feel of the massage,
and men love touching breasts so intimately. This is a
great way to grow closer as a couple or even help your
partner achieve orgasm. That’s right – some women can
actually orgasm through breast massage alone. Even if
your lover does not, this is still a great way to help
her relax and turn her on so that a clitoris or g spot
orgasm is possible.
Breast massage is
best when done naked, but if you aren’t at that comfort
level with your partner yet, you can start with touching
over a shirt and bra (or just one or the other).
Eventually, you want to work toward being comfortable
nude together, since this will allow you to fully access
her nipples and breasts during the massage.
Keep in mind that
this massage is about her. While you might be very
aroused by massaging her breasts, don’t move too quickly
to sex. This downplays the importance of her feelings
and makes her feel rushed toward orgasm. Instead, spend
lots of time with your massage, and consider making this
part of a full-body Tantra massage. You should focus on
relaxing her, not on moving as quickly as possible
toward sex
Learning breast
massage techniques isn’t hard. You want to be gentle,
yet firm with your touch. Pay attention to the whole
breast, no matter how big or small, and be careful with
the intensity around her nipples. Some women love when a
man is rough with her nipples, even pulling or nipping
on them, but others don’t tolerate a lot of stimulation
in this area. Stay in close communication so that you
get the intensity level just right.
There are many
different massage techniques you can learn, and as you
perform them all, watch her face and listen to how she
responds to each touch. One of the best reasons to have
a long-term relationship with a woman, whether you are
monogamous or not, is that you get to learn her body
better and better each time you play. When you give her
better orgasms, she’ll be eager to give you better
orgasms as well.
Breast massage can
stop there if you’re not yet comfortable with one
another, or you can move on to clitoris massage and even
intercourse. Keep in mind also that you can use breast
massage techniques during intercourse in most positions,
which is a great way to increase the level of intensity
during sex.
(C)
2006 Maurice Tate
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