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The
Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women
And What To Do About It...
Here Are
The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With WomenAnd How
To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common
Mistakes...
-By David
DeAngelo, Author Of Double Your Dating
MISTAKE #1:
Being
Too Much Of A Nice Guy
Have you
ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem
to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course
you have.
Just like
me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that
always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some
reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's
going on here?
It's
actually very simple...
Women don't
base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy
is. They choose the men they do because they feel a
powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess
what?
Being nice
doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being
NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize
that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's
hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you
accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER
have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2:
Trying To
Convince Her To Like You"
What do
most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like...
but she's just notinterested?
Right! They
try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I
have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN
"FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never,
ever, EVER.
You cannot
CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with
"logic and reasoning".
Think about
it.
If a woman
doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do
you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable"
with her?
But we all
do it.
When a
woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do
our best to change her mind.
Bad idea.
One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3:
Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our
desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will
make them like us), us guys are always doing things to
get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another
HORRIBLE idea.
Women are
NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them...
EVER.
Don't get
me wrong here.
You don't
have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you
think that treating a woman well means "always
getting her approval and permission for things",
think again.
You will
never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get
ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me?
Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her
around and want her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4:
Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And
Gifts
How many
times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought
her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone
who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're
like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess
what?
It's only
NATURAL when this happens...
That's
right, I said NATURAL.
When you do
these things, you send a clear message:
"I
don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to
try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good
intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation
for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's
right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5:
Sharing
How You Feel Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and
unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is
sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are
rare.
And they get a LOT of
attention from men.
Most men don't realize
this, but attractive women are being approached in one
way or another ALL THE
An attractive woman is
often approached several times a DAY by men who are
interested. This translate into dozens of times per week,
and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have
usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have
EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns
an attractive women off and sends her running away faster
than just about anything is a guy who starts saying
"You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one
or two dates.
This signals to the
woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall
for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back.
Relax.
There's a much better
way...
MISTAKE #6:
Not Getting How Attraction Works For Women
Women are
VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to
accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man
sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a
sexual attraction.
But does
the same apply for women?
Do women
feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or
is something else going on?
Well, after
studying this topic for over five full years now, I can
tell you that women usually have their "attraction
mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you
ever noticed that you see a lot more average and
unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way
around?
Think about
it.
Women are
more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're
attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are
to looks alone.
If you know
how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of
powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you
see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's
not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy
can learn how...
MISTAKE #7:
Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks
One of the
most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before
they've even gotten started... because they think that
attractive women are only interested in men who have
looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or
guys who are a certain age.
And sure,
there are some women who are only interested in these
things.
But MOST
women are far more interested in a man's personality than
his wallet or his looks.
There are
personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you
learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one
of these guys.
YOU DO NOT
have to "settle" for a woman just because you
aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say
this again: If you know how to use your body language
and communication correctly, you can make women feel the
same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU
feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8:
Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I
mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for
approval or permission.
Well,
another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING
AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said
differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing
whatever the woman wants.
Another bad
idea...
Women are
NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women
aren't attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9:
Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm
going to blow your mind...
A woman
ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are
approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body
language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it
might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out
on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she
knows it.
And if you
don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss
her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting
nervous, she won't help!
And this
goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching
a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her,
getting physical... everything.
If you
don't know what to do in each situation, you will
probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you
KNOW it.
It is
VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from
one step to the next with a woman... from the first
meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10:
Not Getting HELP
This is the
biggest mistake of all.
This is the
mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of
success with women that they truly want.
I know,
guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless.
We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've
been there myself.
Let me tell
you a little about me and how I figured out how to be
successful with women...
About five
years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't
know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that
I was attracted to.
It
frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I
was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask
out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can
still remember that night... right on the spot I made the
decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be
successful with women and dating.
Well, after
a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things,
I finally figured it all out.
I can now
approach just about any woman and get her number almost
instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and
I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been
a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick,
insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women...
and I might wind up alone.
I know that
anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.
I've
written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on
both coasts of the United States... and taught tens of
thousands of men all around the world.
I Now
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...But the
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One More Thing...
In this day
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Well,
that's not the case.
I've spent
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And I'll
talk to you again soon.
Your
Friend,
David
DeAngelo
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