Deep Spot - Guaranteed To Give Her A Vaginal
Orgasm by David Shade
What is the deep spot and the x spot in women?
Back in '93, I was dating a 22 year old woman who
had never had an orgasm. She did have one long
term boyfriend, so I knew that intercourse or
oral would not do the trick. So I just took my
time finding what would feel good for her. With
my middle finger I searched for her "g"
spot, but received no response. Then I decided to
slide my finger in as far along the front wall of
her vagina as I could. At its greatest depth, the
inner diameter of the vagina increases. This area
is no longer spongy, but instead smooth and firm,
with slight horizontal ribbing. I curled the tip
of my finger in a "come hither" manner,
while pressing hard against the ribbing and
slightly pulling down. She immediately responded
to this. After continuing this for a few minutes,
she had a concerned look on her face. Then the
most wonderful thing happened. I watched the face
of this beautiful woman while, for the first time
in her life, she had an orgasm. That was sweet.
She then breathlessly said "David, kiss me!"
Eventually she was able to orgasm readily in any
According to Gray's Anatomy, this area is called
the "cavity of the cervix." This area
is shaped like the underside of a Frisbee, with
the cervix in the center pointing downward.
Imagine the way you hold a Frisbee. Your
fingertips touch the inside edge of the Frisbee.
Curl the tip of your finger down the inside edge
of the Frisbee in a "come hither"
Later I was seeing a woman who had only had
orgasms with the aid of continual direct clitoral
stimulation. Basically, she had only had clitoral
orgasms. I used the deep spot on her, and within
a few minutes she exclaimed: "Oh David, I'm
gonna come! I have NEVER come this way! Oh, I'm
gonna COME!" and she did, her very first
vaginal orgasm. After a few evenings of awakening
her vagina (by stimulating less of the deep spot
and more of the wall of the vagina) she was able
to readily orgasm in intercourse.
Because the uterus is slightly tilted towards the
front, the cavity of the cervix is also slightly
tilted. The Frisbee is lower in the front and
higher in the back. The entire inside edge of the
Frisbee, all the way around, is sensitive.
Another variation to this is to get her on her
hands and knees and go in along the back wall of
her vagina. Go in as deep as possible. Along the
back it is deeper because the Frisbee is tilted.
Curl the tip of your finger as if to press hard
against her tail bone. Repeat. To her it will
feel as if she is getting butt fucked. Some women
find this very exciting and will experience a
very powerful orgasm. I did this to one woman as
she held the bathroom sink. When she was coming I
thought she was going to rip the sink right off
the wall. After she caught her breath, and
checked for broken finger nails, she told me that
she just had the most powerful orgasm of her life.
"That was the grand daddy of 'em all!"
When you massage the deep spot, do it firmly. As
you massage the back of the deep spot, you are
simulating the "ballooning" that occurs
in this area at the time of her orgasm. As you
massage any area of the deep spot, you are
simulating the muscle contractions that occur at
the time of her orgasm to dilate the cervix. She
can't HELP but come!
The deep spot or x spot has one important benefit over the
clitoris. The problem with the clitoris is that
after a few seconds of an orgasm, it becomes so
painfully sensitive that it cannot be further
stimulated. The deep spot does not have this
problem. The deep spot is one way to give a woman
a very sustained orgasm. Besides, these natural
muscle contractions continue to occur for some
time after an orgasm anyway.
Another alternative to this is to let her lie
face up. Use two fingers, your index finger and
your middle finger. Keep the tips of your two
fingers about an inch apart as you rub firmly
against the front of her deep spot.
I did some research and found that Chee Ann Chua,
a Malaysian marriage counselor, published a paper
called the "a-spot" in 1997 in "The
Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy."
The text basically says: "The Anterior
Fornix of the vagina is located on the front wall
of the vagina just below the cervix. It is about
3/4 of an inch to 1 1/2 inches long. Its borders
are not well defined. The texture is smooth,
unlike the G-Spot. If you place the tip of your
finger over the cervix, and move it down a bit,
staying on the front wall, your fingertip will be
on the anterior fornix. Stimulate in a circular
motion. If you move down too far, you will feel
the texture change. That will mean that your
finger tip is no longer in the right place."
This is the front of "the deep spot."
But, as I said above, the deep spot is sensitive
all the way around, and, it should be stroked by
bending the tip of the finger in a "come
hither" fashion while at the same time
But the most powerful way to stimulate the vagina
is at the back of the deep spot. Get the tip of
your middle finger way in deep along the back of
the vagina. Stroke against the back of the vagina
in a 'come hither' manner. When she gets really
excited, the deep back of the vagina will begin
to pocket. Press the tip of your middle finger
against the back of the pocket, and with the pad
of your finger, press down on the PC muscle,
which will be contracting so hard that it will
feel like it is going to break your finger. But
drive on hard. It will drive her crazy.
So, I enlisted my willing love lab subject (my
girlfriend) and I set out to rate the various
"spots." Here are the actual anecdotal
findings of the experiment in increasing order of
a-spot with circular stimulation "MUCH
front of deep spot with come hither stroking
back of deep spot with come hither stroking
back of deep spot with long and forceful stroking
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About the Author
David Shade is known worldwide to men and
couples for his advice on how to have amazing sex.
He regularly coaches men on how to give women
pleasure, and couples on how to enhance their
sexual relationships. David has authored a book
that sells worldwide, and teaches seminars on how
to be a Masterful Lover.
(C) 2004 Maurice Tate: Deep spot and the x spot