The
Welcomed Method - Make Her Delirious With
Pleasure by David Shade
Most women believe that direct stimulation of
the naked tip of the clitoris is too sensitive. My
girlfriend said the same thing. When she
masturbates, she goes in a circular motion. She
also prefers that I touch her clitoris in the same
manner. She does not like the naked tip of the
clitoris to be touched, as it is "too much."
She prefers the hood to be rubbed over the clit,
providing a "pushing" pressure onto the
clitoris.
My friend Brent lent me a video he ordered from a web site. The guy in the video
certainly seems to know what he is doing. He
showed how you must directly touch the naked tip
of the clit at its one o'clock position (as
looking AT the clit) with the tip of the index
finger. In the video he demonstrated on a woman.
He rubbed her for about 10 minutes. All the time
she was orgasmic, but she never 'came.' I
returned the video and thought nothing of it.
One night I told my girlfriend about what I
learned in the video and I showed her the web
site. I told her that the guy said that "Any
clitoris can be touched, when touched right."
I said to her "I want to try an experiment."
She said "OK! But I'm a little skeptical as
in the past direct stimulation has been too
powerful."
Just as in the video, I had her lie on her back.
I sat to her left side and placed my left arm
under her left leg with my hand under her ass
with my thumb pressing on her perineum (between
her vagina and her anus.) The video said this
makes her feel secure and anchors the clitoris.
My girlfriend agreed with that. The video said to
use a lot of lubrication because you must avoid
micro scratches. I used Astro Glide, nothing else
works nearly as well. Just as in the video, I
slid the tip of my right index finger up onto her
clitoris. I smeared the lubrication onto her clit
and then began to rub the one o'clock position of
the naked bulb of the clit. The rubbing is to be
done with the tip of the index finger pointing
straight at the clit. The strokes are about one
half inch and at a frequency of about 1 or 2
strokes a second. The strokes are to be radial,
as if along the minute hand at five minutes past
the hour. She immediately responded favorably.
She said "I LIKE THIS experiment." I
tried the 11 o'clock position and asked her if
that was any different. She said that the one
o'clock position was better. I then tried the six
o'clock position, and again she said that the one
o'clock position was better. So I went back to
that. I don't know why the one o'clock position
is better, and the guy in the video didn't
explain it. I continued. Before long, she said
"This feels SO good that I don't WANT to
come!" I instructed her to continue to relax
totally. She said she was right on the edge. She
was in continuous total ecstasy. This continued
for about 30 minutes. Then she said that the
pleasure was so intense that she couldn't take it
any more and she wanted to come. I told her the
magic words, and she did.
We talked about it and she said "The orgasm
was different than any before. The sensation was
different. It was like my clitoris was being
pulled! It was like I had a penis and it was
getting pulled. It is totally unlike the usual
rubbing where there is pressure ONTO the clitoris.
This was different."
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The next day she said "Every time I think
about it, I get really horny. It's like when you
first learn how to masturbate, you want to keep
doing it. I've been craving it all day, I'm
walking around with a clitoris hard on!"
David Shade
About the Author
David Shade is known worldwide to men and
couples for his advice on how to have amazing sex.
He regularly coaches men on how to give women
incredible pleasure, and couples on how to
enhance their sexual relationships. David has
authored a book that sells worldwide, and teaches
seminars on how to be a Masterful Lover.
http://www.masterful-lover.com
(C) 2004 Maurice Tate
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