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Making sex last longer

How can we make sex last longer. The average time of intercourse in the USA is 7 to 10 minutes. It takes some women 30 to 60 minutes to go deep into there orgasmic energy and power. Many women are totally unfulfilled sexually. They know deep down that there is something deeper and more profound and they can take out there frustrations out on their lover.

For men, becoming more present in their bodies can really help in prolonging sex. The next time you make love put your total attention on the sensations in your body. Slow your breath down and deepen it.

Change your focus from trying to please your partner or to rush to an orgasm. Become present in the moment in the here and now without a goal. Relax your buttocks and legs as the energy builds. Use your breath to breath up the energy to your heart area. Relax and make sounds and the energy will move away from your pelvis.

Make eye contact with your lover. Get out of any fantasies and get into the connection and heart energies.

For women focus on total relaxation and surrender. Become one with your pleasure and energy. Surrender into your energy. Become your energy. Become your pleasure. Ask your man to really slow down and feel you. Ask your lover to breath with you and slow his breath down. ask your lover to make eye contact.

Most women have never been touched by a really present man.

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