There are some simple
male and female orgasmic tips and methods to have bigger
orgasms. If you can relax more as the energy builds and
let go more, your orgasmic experience will expand.
Breathe
more from the belly and totally
relax on the out breath.
Have
no goal and be more in your body
sensations.
Relax
any tight areas of your body
again and again.
Move
your pelvis more in time with
your breath
use
aaahhh or similar erotic sounds
to amplify your energy.
Take
more time like 1 hour or more to
build up the energy in self
pleasuring or sex.
In my
masturbation coaching I often suggest for
the client to take a video of themselves
when self pleasuring. By playing back the
video they can see where there is tension
in their body.
The more relaxed one is
the more energy can be generated. The
more relaxed body also enables the energy
to flow from the sex center to other
areas.
The seems to be a strong
connection between the 5 chakra which is
the throat area and the 1 chakra, the sex center.
By opening the throat
area the energy of the sex center rises. One also
transmits this energy to your partner raising his or her
energy too. Let your lover feel your energy!
Great sex
is really about totally letting go!
Annie Sprinkle has
good information on orgasms at her
site.
She also demonstrates a mega
orgasm on the massage dvd and video available here.
Men,
one of my best tips is to activate your
lovers G spot! Learn the art of yoni or
vulva massage and you will get a lot more
sex. Check out actual massage techniques from the above
site. Woman love a man that can take them deep into
their sexual energy. Its great to be told you area a
really great lover.